Resolving Sibling Rivalry
This playbook provides a strategy for identifying, understanding, and mediating conflicts between siblings in order to foster a harmonious household environment.
Step 1: Identification
Observe the interactions between siblings to identify patterns of conflict. Take note of triggers, frequency, and the nature of the disputes.
Step 2: Understanding
Discuss with each child individually to understand their perspective. Listen actively and acknowledge their feelings without taking sides.
Step 3: Communication
Teach effective communication techniques to the siblings, like using 'I feel' statements, listening without interrupting, and expressing needs calmly.
Step 4: Mediation
Facilitate a mediation session where each child can express their viewpoint, using the communication techniques taught. Help them find common ground and to understand each other's feelings.
Step 5: Resolution
Guide the siblings towards developing their own solutions to the conflict. Encourage compromise and ensure that the agreed-upon resolutions are fair to all parties involved.
Step 6: Follow-Up
Monitor the situation and provide opportunities to revisit the resolution. Acknowledge improvements and assist in adjusting the resolution if conflicts persist.
General Notes
Neutrality
Maintain a neutral stance throughout the process to avoid escalating tensions.
Patience
Understand that resolving sibling rivalry is a gradual process and may require ongoing intervention.