Making Friends While Traveling

This playbook outlines the methods and social etiquette to connect with fellow travelers and locals. It is useful for individuals traveling alone who wish to meet new people and make friends during their journeys.

Step 1: Research

Before you travel, research social customs, common interests, and local hangout spots in the area you'll be visiting. Use travel forums, social media groups, travel blogs, and guidebooks to gather information.

Step 2: Accommodation Choice

Choose accommodation that promotes social interaction, such as hostels, guesthouses, or Airbnb experiences that offer communal activities or shared spaces.

Step 3: Attend Events

Participate in local events, workshops, group tours, or classes that align with your interests. This provides a natural setting to meet people with similar hobbies.

Step 4: Open Body Language

Maintain open and approachable body language. Smile, make eye contact, and have a relaxed posture to seem more accessible to others.

Step 5: Initiate Conversation

Initiate conversation with others by asking open-ended questions or sharing something about your journey. Use contextual cues or shared experiences as conversation starters.

Step 6: Listen Actively

Show genuine interest in the people you meet. Listen carefully to what they say, ask follow-up questions, and share relevant stories or insights to keep the conversation engaging.

Step 7: Exchange Contacts

If you feel a connection with someone, suggest staying in touch. Exchange social media info or phone numbers to potentially meet up again during your travels or in the future.

Step 8: Follow Up

After meeting, follow up with a message to show that you valued the interaction and would like to continue the connection. Propose a specific activity or meet-up if you're still in the area.

General Notes

Safety First

Always prioritize your safety when meeting new people. Meet in public spaces and inform someone you trust about your plans to meet someone new.

Cultural Sensitivity

Respect local customs and be sensitive to cultural differences. Avoid making assumptions and be open to learning from others.

Genuine Interest

Friendships are built on mutual interest and respect. Be authentic and show genuine curiosity about the lives and cultures of the people you meet.