Choosing Guardians for Children

Evaluate the needs of your minor children, considering their age, health, education, and special requirements. Think about the type of care and environment you want for them.

Make a list of potential guardians for your children. Include family members, friends, or others you trust who share your values and parenting style.

Assess each candidate’s reliability, stability, age, health, location, and existing familial obligations. This ensures they're capable of long-term guardianship responsibilities.

Have in-depth discussions with potential guardians to gauge their willingness and to discuss your expectations about guardianship. Ensure they are prepared for such a commitment.

Consult with an estate planning attorney to understand state laws regarding guardianship and the implications of your decisions.

Work with your attorney to draft the necessary legal documents, typically a will or trust, to appoint your chosen guardians. This may also include a letter of intent explaining your decision.

Review the documents with your attorney, ensure they meet legal requirements, and sign them in the presence of the required witnesses or a notary.

Safely store your legal documents in a secure location. Notify your chosen guardians of where these documents can be found if needed.

Inform family members and other relevant parties of your decision to avoid potential conflicts and ensure everyone is prepared.

Regularly review and update your guardian selections as circumstances change, such as the guardian's situation or your child's needs.

Consider appointing alternate guardians in case your primary choice becomes unwilling or unable to serve.